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OK. The other day me and my girlfriend had sex without a condom, we usually never do. During the sex we applied KY warming liquid. After the sex I noticed the liquid was 4 months out of date. The following day I had red dots on my penis and a rash under my foreskin. I'm wondering if it's possible I could have gotten an allergic reaction or something to this liquid.
Llama answered:
Yes, it's entirely possible that you experienced an allergic reaction. The due date is probably not going to be a problem. We do not stock this product because we found during our testing that quite a few of our testing boys noticed a reaction or burning sensation to trying the warming liquid. We recommend using only water-based, non-flavoured, non-flashy lubes - you don't want to be mucking around with your genitals!
On 2/03/2006
Jay'sgal asked:
I have been with my partner for 8 months and up until about 6 weeks ago we had a great sex life (sex everyday). Now his friends have got him smoking weed and his sex drive has all but died and I have a very high sex drive. Not sure what to do. He is unwilling to talk about it but I'm losing my confidence to the point where I'm too scared to have sex with him now because he never wants it anymore (even though I know deep down it's not me). Help what should I do?
Llama answered:
Well, there's really not much that you can do about someone else's choices. He's obviously aware that you're not happy about not having sex and his smoking habits, and is not wanting to change this - otherwise he would talk to you about it. So all you have left really is your own choices. Is the relationship satisfying to you? Do you see him coming to his senses and changing his no good weed smoking habits? Have a good think about it, because it comes down to your choices and what you're prepared to accept.
On 24/02/2006
Mr_Bill asked:
First, I can't seem to find gags (ball or otherwise) anywhere on your site - seems like something that would be a standard item! My wife needs one!
Second, can you advise which is the best multipurpose strapon? For her to use on me, but also for me to strap on an extra cock to give her the double penetration effect. Just to be dificult, is it also possible to configure a 'double ended' strapon so that when she is using it on me she also has an internal dildo? Thanks!
Llama answered:
We do have a standard ball gag (D.VICE brand) that we have instore but haven't yet put on the site. You can email or call us to order it if you wish.
I would recommend the
Fervour for your purposes because it is so adjustable. You can wear it high for double penetration, or can use the backing piece to assist with holding another dildo inside. Unfortunately this is never as perfect an experience as we'd like - our dildos have a large base to prevent them slipping out of the harnesses (a common design flaw in other dildos) - and this base can be too bulky. I have taken to one of mine with a stanley knife and carved a nice slim base for this purpose. But note: once you've cut your dildo, your 10 year faults guarantee is void.
Have fun with your adventures!
On 21/02/2006
Martin asked:
Hi. You have very nice website! Beautiful design.
Llama answered:
Thanks!
On 19/02/2006
wantmore asked:
i lovvvvvvvvvve everything about the website..a Q: HOW CAN I ENLARGE MY COCK WITHOUT USING THOSE PILLS OR INJECTIONS OR ANYTHING THAT CAN HAVE ANY SIDE EFFECT? WHAT IS THE FASTEST AND THE SAFEST WAY TO DO IT?? ANY RECOMMENDATION??? thank u so much..
Llama answered:
The best way of doing this in a natural way is to use a
Penis Pump. These work by increasing the size of your blood vessels in your penis, and for many men is very effective with regular use. I have seen some quite spectacular results, but have also heard of quite average outcomes. Like anything, if you're going to pursue this method, use your pump at least 3 times per week. Once you stop regular use your penis will return to its normal size in a couple weeks. Be careful to not overuse the pump also - stop pumping when you feel a pulling sensation, and most definitely if you experience any discomfort.
On 15/02/2006
new&curious asked:
My girlfriend and I want to broaden our sex lives with a toy, but don't know whether we should start with a vibrator or a dildo. I enjoy pentration more than she does. Can a vibrator do both or are we best to buy seperate items?
Llama answered:
A great product for couples to enjoy is the
Naughty Bunny - our most popular couple toy in our history! This acts to stimulate around the balls and penis, and also vibrates against your girlfriend's clitoris (assuming that you are a guy). Otherwise I suggest that you take a good look at the site together and have a frank (and no doubt sexy) discussion about the products that you see. Damn fun way to spend an evening...
On 15/02/2006
very tall asked:
I am one of a lucky few who can take a whole arm up my anus to the fisters armpit. Will I become loose over time and not be able to stop my excrement from coming out?
Llama answered:
It is very unlikely that this will eventuate for you. Often the reality is that people who enjoy anal sex this much, are more likely to practice habits that improve their anal health. The only thing to watch is doing this too often or without proper preparation and care - like anything else, you have to look after your body. Watch your anal health carefully, and see a doctor if you become concerned about any symptoms that emerge.
On 14/02/2006
naughty_nz asked:
Hi, I am looking for some advice and contacts to help me with an idea for a great sex toy that I have come up with. Lets just say, this one is a beauty! lol. Any help would be fantastic as I don't know where to start. I would put the idea on here but I haven't patented it yet and am scared someone might grab the idea out from under me so to speak.
Llama answered:
I think that you should patent your idea first, develop a confidentiality clause or contract for interested parties to sign, and then perhaps send me an email at info@dvice.co.nz. Be aware that it is relatively costly to have ideas patented - and that after hundreds of approaches, D.VICE has not yet taken up any of these new toy ideas. Be very confident in your idea! Good luck.
On 13/02/2006
upsize? asked:
I recently purchased a halter cockring, fortunately std size & not the tight size advised, however I am a little deflated by the fit. Barely able to get to the largest notch on the strap and with my balls busting out of the harness like a couple of oranges in egg cups I am wondering what will be the next best move. I am thinking something in metal maybe a better fit?? I do like the whole tackle in a grip effect. What do you think.??
answered:
Send me an email to info@dvice.co.nz with your specific Halter measurements. For example, if the back strap is too short, do you want it extended by 1cm or 2cm? By adding 5ml to the ball straps, will this make your experience more pleasurable? We will custom make one for you - can't have you feeling TOOOO restricted!
On 6/02/2006
Wondering asked:
I am a 19-year-old Male. I have never had actual intercourse before so technically I am a virgin however me and my girlfriend have done a lot of other activities that do not involve me sticking my penis in her (we are waiting till marriage). Just recently she talked me into letting her use a dildo on me. I have to tell you the truth I was a little turned off at first but now I find it to be one of the greatest experiences of everything that we do. I would like to find out if it is natural for me to like it even though I am straight. Also she seems to be able to get it in almost 16 to 18 inches inside me and it does not hurt at all, in fact it feels even better. Is that normal or is there something wrong with me.
Llama answered:
What you are experiencing is perfectly natural and normal. Anal sex is a very pleasurable experience for both men and women. Contrary to popular belief, your pleasure in receiving anal sex makes no comment on your sexuality, but is simply a natural response to considerate stimulation. It is also possible (and frequently done!) to have relatively large and long dildos and even fists inserted pleasurably into the anus. When done correctly the size is not so much the issue, as how it is done. Your girlfriend is obviously using enough lubricant and following good technique. Lucky you!
On 4/02/2006
Gillybean asked:
I was abused heaps by my ex husband in the fact that he always wanted oral sex but never gave anything back to me - now my new husband would like oral sex but I cannot bring myself to do this again. I really want to do this for him.
Llama answered:
It's awful how often this sort of thing happens. And really you're the only one who can do anything about it. I wouldn't recommend that you just force yourself to give your husband oral sex, but definitely you need to talk to him about why you have difficulty doing it. You might like to try a multi-pronged approach. Perhaps some counselling? I imagine you would have more to discuss than the oral sex issue. Perhaps some gentle practice? Start off by licking and sucking around that general area - slowly slowly is probably the best idea. Discuss your limits and boundaries with your husband. For example you might ask him not to touch your head while you are near his genitals. You might also ask him to gently encourage you or to stay quiet. Good luck in your journey towards free sexual expression!
On 3/02/2006
Chboy85 asked:
I want to make my girlfriend have a G spot orgasm but she feels uncomfortable with me using my hands downstairs. What can I do to overcome this as I am really interested in knowing how?
Llama answered:
Weeelll, when it comes down to it, it is your girlfriend's choice about how you get to play with her. The only thing that you really can do is talk to her and tell her why you're interested in trying. Sometimes using a toy is less personal than hands - and might be a good stepping stone for you.
On 30/01/2006
wondering asked:
Hi, I'm a 30 year old female who's had a number of sexual partners. I have enjoyed sex with them but only seem to be able to actually orgasm when using a vibrator (by myself, i haven't yet used it with a partner). Why is it that I haven't orgasmed when having sex with a partner or them going down on me? Is it normal to only be able to achieve an orgasm with a vibrator? What advice can you give me? Help! :o)
Llama answered:
Yes, this is very normal. A lot of women cannot achieve orgasm at all, so you're a step further along than that.
Think about the things that are different between you orgasming on your own, and your not orgasming with a partner. Is there anything that you can easily replicate? Is it something to do with your not trusting your partner to do what you require in order to orgasm? Do you have a particular routine that you go through alone so that you orgasm - and have your told your lover/s about this? Part of this might be your responsibility to communicate and work on. And I guess the other possibility is that your lover does not employ good or YOUR technique - help him or her along so that they're doing what you want them to.
On 29/01/2006
ScaredyKat asked:
What shaver do u recommend for shavin'down there? I usually shave but I get ingrown hairs and I'm too scared to get it waxed! Thanks
Llama answered:
Look no further than the
Smooth Shave Combo. The Smartpro cuts the hair very short, and the Smooth Shaver is a finishing tool. Most people, including our own testing girls and boys, found the combo to be very effective, and the best thing is that there is no ingrown hairs or cuts. Read the info on the site page carefully so you get the best use from your purchase.
On 28/01/2006
l1m1ted_ed1t1on asked:
Love the website and love your store. I've never purchased anything from you guys, but have been seriously thinking about it. Do you sell gay pride flags at all? Been looking everywhere and can never find a place that has them. Would be grateful for any information you can give me.
Llama answered:
Hmmm, no gay pride flags sorry - and unfortunately no idea where you can find these. Perhaps a niche business opportunity? Thanks for your kind words about our business - we love you too ;-)
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