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On 16/07/2009 Curious asked:
What can you tell us about the Serenity and Zenith rabbit vibes? What are the measurements? I'm on the lookout for a classy pearl vibe and those look ideal.
Advice grrl answered:

Dear Curious

The Serenity and Zenith are gorgeous 'Rabbit" vibrators, they do not actually have the "pearls" of a more traditional rabbit, they do have a good strong shaft rotation, and the tickler is multifunction which is fun and stimulating.

The silicone material (phalate free) is a real bonus and they are fairly quiet for that style of vibe. The measurements are pretty standard for a Rabbit vibrator. The measurements are the useable (that can be inserted) shaft length. This measurement is made by a ruler across so not exact.

Serenity is 13.5 cmL x 3.5-4 cmW.  Zenith is 13.5 cmL x 3.5cmW.

We recommend using a waterbased lubricant or silicone compatible, silicone lubricant to ensure the silicone material remains undamaged. Some lubricants are not good with silicone.

 

On 15/07/2009 M asked:
Is it possible to pay using a prepaid Visa card rather than a credit card?
Advice grrl answered:

Dear M

You will be able to use any kind of Visa card including prezzie cards and Visa Debit cards. Provided you have sufficient funds of course! You can also pay by direct credit from you bank account, we check each week day for funds deposited into our account, so it is a little slower than payment by credit card, which is instant, but not by much.

On 12/07/2009 Blondechick asked:
Hey there, I was wondering if its ok to use the Fun balls or Smart balls during pregnancy.. if not, do you have any other great ideas??
Advice grrl answered:

Dear Blondechick

We recommend using SmartBalls (they are the best) before and after pregnancy rather than during. We recommend 6 weeks after pregnancy provided everything is healed up, and really commiting yourself to using them regularly to get everythng back in good order, starting with a single SmartBall Uno if you your muscles are compromised and moving through the mid weight then on to the Smart Balls Duo. They really do work, with lubricant of course.

During pregnancy we can recommend pregnancy Yoga and/or Pilates and of course regular squeezing of the pelvic floor muscles and orgasms exercise the pelvic floor muscles so plenty of those.

On 10/07/2009 bum fun asked:
I am a guy new to anal sex and looking for something to start with for myself. Can I use a women's vibrator such as a "Rabbit" and what would be a good toy to start with?
Advice grrl answered:

Dear Bum Fun

Toys for anal play must be designed for that purpose to be safe and suitable for anal stimulation. The Rabbit styles are not suitable as they have no flared base and if material tore the internal workings could potentially be pulled into the lower intestine by the powerful sphincter muscles.

There are a great range of anal stimulators and vibrators for men For Men- most pleasurable Prostate and perineum massagers offer men mind blowing orgasms. The prostate is often called the male G-Spot. The most popular do not actually vibrate (Nexus), although there are vibrating options (Rude boy range). They are designed by men for men, are made with long lasting easy clean materials (medical grade plastic or silicone) and we have great customer feedback about them. This range is frequently updated so you can either get one style or add to your collection.They are a little pricey and well worth every cent as they give specific stimulation to the command centre's of pleasure for men. You can use them for solo and partner play.

Depending on your experience, you can choose a smaller (beginners) or larger size.

If you are looking for something more general we recommend silicone buttplugs as a great place to start, it is often good to have non vibrating and vibrating anal toys. A good quality anal vibrator, also made from silicone is well worth having as well.

All anal toys MUST have a flared base to prevent the muscles from pulling the toy into the anus. Silicone is non porous, easy clean and long lasting.

Always use a lubricant for anal play, we recommend LubeXXX, superb for anal play. And if you need a bit of help to relax, try Innuendo, a natural muscle relaxant for anal play.

Take a look at Sex Info for more info about anal sex or tune into D.VICE Advice radio show all about pleasurable anal sex. The Expert Guide to Anal Sex DVD is a truly hot and has real people having real anal sex under instruction from a trained sex trainer!

 

On 29/06/2009 cookie asked:
I recently went to a d.vice party and there was a toy there that you could strategically place between yourself and your partner for added stimulation while having sex, but I can't remember the name and can't seem to find it on your web site, can you help?
Advice grrl answered:

Dear Cookie

It sounds to me like a vibrating ring, they are great fun and stimulating for both partners, there are a few different styles to choose from so perhaps you will recognise it by sight. for added sensation you can slip on some Purr Clitoral Arousal Gel, that goes well with vibration and sex!

We recommend using lubricant with any of the vibrating rings to ensure the ring sits comfortably on your partner and moves comfortably on you.

Have fun!

On 28/06/2009 lover boy asked:
hi
i am 29 and married for 1 year. i have a very happy and active sex life. Me and my wife enjoy sex 2-3 times a week. Sometimes she tell me not to ejaculate too soon and sometimes i cannot control and ejaculate too early. i wanted to know in my situation will the product Virilina libido enhancer help to resolve this issue of premature ejaculation.
please help
thanks

loverboy
Advice grrl answered:

Dear LoverBoy

Early ejaculation is a relatively easy issue to resolve and there are a number of options. As all men work differently, we have found that some men find Virilina good for firmer and longer erections and as a result ejaculation is slowedand their orgasm is more intense. Many men find they become erect more easily after ejaculation. For a sammler sample of users  things may be sped up.

An adjustable cockring combined with Virilina is a good solution for more inense orgasms and good climax control. The cock ring is popped on early on during foreplay and when the penis becomes fully erect, bloodflow is restricted, keeping the penis erect. Many men find the sensation stimulating, and they work universally for men and are fun to use! We recommend beginners should use a large size.

You can wear a vibrating cockring over and adjustable cockring if you want to pleasure your wife during lovemaking with a vibratoer, as the adjustable cockring will slow down climax whilst you enjoy the vibrations.

On 23/06/2009 wondering asked:
hi, well during clitoral stimulation, i get to a point when it all builds up and feels amazing but 1nce i get to that point its all over the feeling doesnt last like a orgasm, can u suggest something?
Advice grrl answered:

Dear Wondering

There are quite a number of options open to you and it will fortuntaely be all about trying diferent things to see what works. Women's orgasmic repsonse differs widely and also can change over time.

To start we recommend Purr Clitoral Arousal Gel as this is a natural and very effective orgam enhancer. You may find that while the first orgasm doesnt quite give you the sensation you want, that followup orgasms are deeper and more satifying. Many women find Purr helps them to become multi orgasmic.

Did you know that many women only become fully aroused after their first orgasm?

I am not sure how you are receiving clitoral stimulation, you may find that using a vibrator on the clitoris gets the results you are after, for partner play you can use a vibrating ring (if you partner is a guy or uses a strap-on). You may find that combining clitoral stimulation with some internal stimulation may give you the depth of orgasm you are looking for. So using a vibrator for internal vibration, one with a throbbing, pulsating action such as the rechargeable Iris, Elise or Intensity are ideal.

If you are on your knees or side and using a G-Spot vibrator or enjoying G-Spot penetration this can also add great depth and intensity to the orgasm if you the clitoris is being stimulating at the same time.

On 19/06/2009 Suz asked:
I recently purchased a Pacific Pearl Vibrator at the Perth Sexpo. It continuously turns itself off for no apparent reason every couple of minutes. The batteries are new. Help?
Advice grrl answered:

Dear Suz

How very frustrating, thanks for letting us know.

It could be that your Pacific Pearl has a fault, or it could be that you are pressing the off buttons. Please contact info@dvice.com.au and the helpful team will do some problem solving with you. If it is faulty they will arrange for you to return it for a checkup. It will still be within the warranty period, so contact them asap.

On 16/06/2009 stumped asked:
I have viewed your responses to the questions on retarded ejaculation, and was wondering if you have any products to make the penis more sensitive?
Advice grrl answered:

Dear Stumped

I can recommend the EdOil, it increases bloodflow and generally conditons the penis, improving the overall experience. Improved bloodflow generally increases sensation. You could also try a vibrator or vibrating cock ring, if you like the sensation of vibrators as this can enhance sensation and speed up matters.

If you are open to prostate massage, the Nexus range are superb for improving male orgasm, with and without stimulation of the penis.Both anal stimulation and prostate massage in particular has opened up a whole new area of pleasure and orgasm for men.

I can also recommend the Expert Guide to Fellatio and HandJobs DVD's they have many tips and tricks for improving the male sexual experience, useful for yourself and your partner

On 2/06/2009 tasty asked:
Hi there,
I recently purchased your smart balls and I am having trouble using them. I put them in and think that they are as in as far as they can go but they always fall out, not completly drop out but the first ball comes out and its painful to leave it there so have to pull it out. Is this because I am not tight enough or am I not inserting them correctly and should I or should I not use lube?
Thanx in advance!
Advice grrl answered:

Dear Tasty

Thanks for your question. I recommend opting for the SmartBalls Uno...a single ball to start. Easier to use and when you have mastered this, go back to your duo balls. Many women find this a good way to build up strength to enable then to move on to the double SmartBalls, which is the ultimate goal. We definately recommend using lubricant with all the balls to ensure a comfortable experience.

Have a bit of a read of the SmartBalls Uno information and you will get a good idea of how to use both styles. The SmartBalls are well worth the effort for the fantastic results!

If they do not show on the website, it will be because we are temporarily out of stock and they should be arriving early July 09

 

On 28/05/2009 maria asked:
Hi,

I dont have a current partner and have only ever had sex and been penetrated once which was very painful. What do you suggest I use to practice with that will give me pleasure as well as get used to penetration so it wont hurt next time I have sex?
answered:

Hi Maria,

This is common for lots of people new to penetration. Sometimes it can be due to being a bit nervous, so focus on doing things that feel good for you (tell your partner what you like as well) and your body, and remember to relax and breathe  when taking things inside the body. Start with your own fingers first, and move up from there.

The more aroused you are the more comfortable penetration becomes, so have sex with someone who turns you on is imporatant AND knowing your own triggers for arousal. So self pleasuring is important. Purr Clitoral Arousal Gel is an effective way for your body to enter a phsical state of sexual arousal, massage a small amount onto the clitoris, before mastubating, using a toy or sex with a partner.
Lubricant is essential for pleasurable penetration, and we recommend Probe,  a tasteless and odourless  lube that feels very natural. Use it during sex with a partner, or by yourself.
Vibration and stimulation (with the mouth or fingers) around the outside of the vagina is essential for penetration to feel good. Pay attention to the clitoris, and the outer and inner lips of the vagina. A good toy for you would be one that vibrates and is quite thin and small. The Liv is a rechargable vibrator and would be a good choice for you as it is slender so easy to pop inside the body and provides a range of vibration modes for you to experiemnt with!
Another good first time vibe is the Fun Factory range of mini vibes. They are small, and offer a range of vibration modes. Also, check our large You can get yourself in the mood with erotic short stories and also "How to" DVD's.

Have fun with your adventure of self discovery.

On 26/05/2009 nymph asked:
do you sell costumes and corsets for sizes over 20?
Advice grrl answered:

Dear nymph, yes we do sell costumes up to size 24 when we have them. Not always in stock, but keep checking the site. you can also email us with a request and we can let you know when they are in. We do Nurse/Officer Sexy/Mile High/Gangster Gal and French Maid from 8-24.

On 25/05/2009 helgaspice asked:
Where can I purchase replacement Kiwi Bullets from please? I can't seem to see them on your website. Thanks
answered:

Hi helgaspice

I am not sure which Kiwi you are refering to as there is the wireless and the V8 complete with wired controller (available Australia only). So for replacement bullets for the wireless model try the mini bullet or mini push button and for double bullets eamil info@dvice.com.au and they can help you out.

On 21/05/2009 nic asked:
how cum there appears to be no more on kiwifm since 3rd May
have really enjoyed the information
Advice grrl answered:

Hi nic, they are all up to date.

On 15/05/2009 G asked:
How exactly do two women use a double-ended dildo? It doesn't look like you could have much body contact or anything to thrust against.
Advice grrl answered:

Hello G, you are quite right, a traditional double ender is tricky to use and becomes a slippery snake once lubricant is applied, that is why we don't sell them. We do have a great system that easily joins 2 silicone dildos together and gives you a handy holder with which to thrust and direct the dildos. This clever device is called the Tryst. this allso means that you can use the 2 dildos separately for handheld or strap on play.
The other great option for double style dildo action, either with or without a harness are the Share/Feeldoe double dildos, which allow both partners to be connected during thrusting and penetration with the one dildo. These are most easily worn in a harness, and can in some positions be used without a harness, it's a good pelvic floor work out!

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