D.VICE Sex Q & A. Will using a vibrator make it harder to cum in other ways?

D.VICE Sex Q & A.

Question.
New to Vibrators asks; I’ve recently discovered vibrators and I find I can have really intense climaxes using one but wondering whether that will make it harder to come in other ways?

D.VICE Sexpert Replies;
That’s an interesting question and quite a common concern for women and for some male partners.
Many women will experience their first orgasm using a vibrator as can vibrators give really intense stimulation to the clitoris, which is the way over 85% of women orgasm.
Many women do not orgasm during intercourse as the clitoris is not 'automatically' stimulated this way. With a vibrator you can place the stimulation at the place where it feels best and because you are totally in control of the intensity, pressure and placement, you are likely to find your orgasms more intense and to find that you can orgasm more easily.

Variety is important and experimenting and exploring different ways of achieving orgasm and different types of orgasm will ensure you have an interesting and developing sex life.

When playing with a partner you can use the knowledge you gain from vibrator use to direct your partner during oral stimulation or to show them how to stimulate your clitoris during penetrative play. 

Using vibrators with a partner can also be great fun and there are many gorgeous couples vibrators that will bring you both intense pleasure.

There are a range of orgasms women can experience including clitoral, g-spot and anal orgasms as well as female ejaculation, so exploring with toys and/or a partner can be great fun and they will all feel quite different.

Some women can get attached to very intense clit vibrators and can temporarily lose some sensation, or require the greater intensity in order to orgasm. Simply stopping using that toy for a while or and engaging in other sexual experiences will return the sensation to normal.

We always recommend using lube for sex in general and specifically with sex toys so that pleasurable and friction-less contact is maintained for greater sensation.