D.VICE Sex Q & A. I only G-Spot orgasm with my vibrator, am I normal?

I do not have G-Spot orgasms with my husband, only with my vibrator. Am I normal?

Question;

I have only G Spot orgasmed with my vibrator. While my husband hits the right spot at times, I do not orgasm with him. Only his oral stimulation will make me orgasm. Am I abnormal?

D.VICE Sexpert Answers;

You definitely are perfectly normal in your sexual response.

Over 80% of women require direct stimulation of the clitoris in order to orgasm. Clearly your husband is doing a good job of stimulating your clit during oral play and bringing you to orgasm. 
Intercourse rarely stimulates the clitoris directly, while there are some positions such as doggy style where your partner can reach around and may be able to get a good rhythm to bring you to orgasm, so women would still find this more effective with a vibrator as well.

Stimulating the G-Spot to the point of orgasm is quite technical, in the sense that apart from a small percentage of women who get sufficient stimulation during intercourse to enable a G-Spot orgasm, many more women are able to orgasm when using a g-spot toy.

When using your vibrator you are able to control the intensity and position the toy to hit your sweet spot. A vibrator tends to be fairly and not too bendy and combines pressure and vibration, both very effective for g-spot stimulation. you can also determine how long to massage the g-spot for and focus your sole attention on your g-spot. All of these things are hard to achieve during intercourse.

Many couples combine sex toys in their love making routines so that both are participating and exploring what turns you on and gets you off. If your husband is open to doing this with you you can have a lot of fun together. Many men find they also enjoy vibration and can have different orgasms to those they have experienced through intercourse.