D.VICE Q & A. How do my wife and I use a double dildo?
Posted by D.VICE Sexpert onWe are ready to try a double dildo, what can you recommend for a male/female couple?
Question
Hi D.VICE girls, can you give me a rundown of the double dildos and which one is best, how to use etc. Both my wife and I like something sizeable and so keen to know what can work for us at the same time. We have a Boss already and a wetsuit material harness, thanks.
D.VICE Sexpert Answers
Double dildos are heaps of fun and open up lots of possibilities for mutual penetrative play. Double dildo pleasure encourages us to experience something different than the roles of one person being the penetrative partner and the other the receptive partner. If you both like penetration a double dildo allows you to both rock this together. Perfect for girl on girl sex vaginal sex, double dildos can be used for anal play too, so are also a great pegging- female on male anal penetration- accessory.
If you would like a double ended dildo that incorporates your current Boss Dildo (yes this really can be a thing!) you use a Tryst together with another dildo from the D.VICE silicone dildo range to make your own custom double ended dildo. The tryst is a neoprene (wetsuit fabric) joiner that joins each dildo at the base. It allows you both to choose your favourite dildo, and the bases provide a surface between you to press against using a scissoring action. Have fun experimenting with varying the angles of your two chosen dildos, and discovering positions that feel great for you both.
If you’re looking for something that will work well in your current harness, the Feeldoe double dildos are a fantastic option. The unique design of the Feeldoe dildos provides a bulb for one person to wear vaginally, with the other dildo end then placed perfectly for penetrating your partner (either vaginally or anally).
The person wearing the bulb experiences a full sensation rather than friction from thrusting, and also some pressure on the clitoris from the base of the external dildo. The Feeldoe range is available is a variety of shaft widths and lengths from slim to stout.
While you can use the Feeldoe double dildos without a harness, it does require very strong pelvic floor muscles to hold it in place. You may find you need to hold the base with your hand, which can prove challenging.
After vigorous testing D.VICE recommends using the Feeldoe dildos with a D.VICE strap-on harness (perfect with the Beachcomber neoprene harness you already have or the Groover leather harness is another great option). Using a harness helps to stabilise the dildo by taking some of the weight and is what we recommend to maximise pleasure. As a bonus the Feeldoe dildos all contain a vibrating bullet so you have the option of gentle vibration for added sensation.
The Eternal Swan is another more petite vibrating double dildo option making it popular for anal play.
All of these toys are should be used with a high-quality silicone compatible lubricant such as Probe Silky Light, or the NZ made organic LOVE lubricant.
Double dildo play is lots of fun and can definitely add another dimension to your penetrative sex play.
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