Big boy's toys

It is a common misconception that sex toys are only for women. The majority of sex toys can be used by both men and women, but many are just for guys. Sex toys for guys are designed to either enhance sensation around the penis & scrotum, stimulate the perineum, or the prostate - known as the male G-spot. Sex toys are used by men of all sexualities...

Sex toys for guys include: cockrings, masturbators, penis pumps, G-spot toys and mens' lingerie...

What is a cockring?

  • A strap or ring that is worn around the base of the penis, the balls only, or around the penis and balls (full tackle).

Why wear a cockring?

  • They feel good!
  • A cockring enhances sensation for men around the penis and balls and can intensify the sensation of orgasm. They can also maintain erections for longer.
  • Men wearing cockrings should have more control over their erection and orgasm.

How do they work?

  • Blood flow enters the erectile tissue in the penis through arteries inside the shaft, and leaves it through veins on the outside. Therefore putting pressure on the base can help achieve erection and maintain larger and harder erections (ie, bloodflow continues but more is kept within the penis).
  • Wearing a cockring around the penis & scrotum puts pressure on the tube through which semen travels, which delays ejaculation.

Cockring History

  • Men have used cockrings for hundreds of years.
  • There are records of Japanese men wrapping straps of silk around the base of their penis. Indigenous cultures used vines. Leather cockrings were used throughout the world.

Types of cockrings

  • Basic rubber ring — either just around the penis or full tackle.
  • Adjustable rubber- easy to put on and remove.
  • Leather - adjustable — look and feel great. These are a great option for beginners who plan on becoming experienced.
  • Chrome - for the more experienced player.
  • Vibrating - stimulates both wearer and anyone they are having sex with.
  • Chastity device — designed to prevent erection, which many men find highly erotic. Can be worn all day...

How to choose the right size? Cockring safety...

  • We recommend starting with a larger size or an adjustable cockring.
  • Experiment with different ways to wear it and what pressure feels good.
  • The tighter the fit the more sensation.
  • Use a little lube to help put it on.
  • Put a cockring on just as you are starting to become erect.
  • Initially wear a cockring for 30 minutes at the most.
  • Remove if it starts to feels uncomfortable.
  • Don’t pretend to be a cockring expert if you’re not — have fun experimenting with your partner.


  • Masturbators are designed to enhance the sensation of masturbation for men.
  • They are rubber or silicone sleeves with an opening at one end — they sometimes have an opening at the top in which a vibrating bullet can be inserted.
  • They are often ribbed and textured internally — some models contain pearls for added stimulation. Some masturbators are shaped erotically and depict male or female genitalia or fantasy creatures such mermaids.
  • Always use a water based lubricant and a condom to make cleaning and use easier.
  • A common question with masturbators is whether it will feel too tight on the penis. The masturbators are designed to give firm pressure on the penis replicating the sensation of strong vaginal muscles or of anal penetration. Most masturbators are designed to be tighter, but have a lot of stretch in the material used. It is very unusual for them to be too tight.

Penis pumps or exercisers

  • Penis pumps are a way to temporarily enlarge the penis and create harder erections.
  • Pumps generally consist of a cylinder that fits over the penis and a pump that creates a vacuum. This dilates the veins and arteries of the penis and the blood vessels in the erectile tissue. They also stretch the suspensory ligament at the base of the penis.
  • A pump will enlarge both the length and the girth of the penis, but needs to be used consistently — 15-30 minutes every day is recommended.
  • Just like muscles if you stop working out you loose the definition!

The male G-spot

  • Men of all sexualities enjoy stimulation of the male G-spot!
  • The prostate gland is located through the front wall of the rectum about 5-7 cms into the anus.
  • The prostate gland feels firm and about the size of a walnut.
  • Some guys can orgasm purely from prostate stimulation and many say it gives a more intense and whole body sensation of orgasm. Press in a sustained regular rhythm to give maximum pleasure.
  • The prostate gland encircles the urethra at the exit from the bladder so, just like when the women’s G-spot is stimulated, you may initially feel like urinating.
  • Always use lube for anal penetration — wait 10-30 seconds for the muscles to relax.
  • Either use fingers (use latex gloves), or a prostate massager, designed specifically for men, by men. Thse stimulate the prostate and perineum.
  • Your lover may want to strap on a silicone dildo and strap-on harness for some 'bend over boyfriend.'

Ball stimulation

  • Some guys enjoy intense ball stimulation. It’s not for everyone however, so having good communication is essential!
  • Effective ball stimulation can be achieved by using cockrings. Some go around the penis and balls and have a strap to restrain and separate the balls (such as the Halter or Bridle). Alternately just wear a cockring only around the scrotum. As the balls may shrink up into the body with arousal, the strap may need to be tightened during play.
  • The Tackle is a ball stretcher. It consistes of a leather strap that goes around the scrotum that can be gently tugged or weights attached.
  • Oral stimulation of the balls is very pleasurable for most men.
  • Vibrating cockrings will often vibrate behind, around or on the scrotum.

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