Tips to become a cunnilingus expert

Oral sex is often a woman's favourite type of sexual stimulation. Find out how to become a cunnilingus sexpert.

1. Ask her what kind of oral stimulation she likes
2. Make sure both of you are in a comfortable position
3. Don't rush – enjoy yourself (and obviously let her enjoy it!)
4. Start with light pressure as the clit is very sensitive/   Check in with her to see if you're using the pressure she likes
5. Use lots of saliva and/or lube to keep the area lubricated. We recommend Probe.
Experiment with different strokes and see what she responds to/  Begin with licking the inner & outer labia then move to the clit hood. Often a side-to-side tongue movement is the most effective/  Be creative with different strokes and combinations!
6. Let her guide you/  Often a woman will guide you with her hands on your body, a tilt of the pelvis or thigh movement/  This is a good thing! Take notice of her non-verbal signals.
Use pressure points at the inside of the upper thigh (the crease where the thigh meets the body) to heighten sensitivity
7. Watch that clit!  As she gets closer to orgasm, her body may tense, she might buck or grind her pelvis and the clitoris may retract towards the pubic bone (so give it a bit more pressure!)
8. Don't forget penetration/   Often women will enjoy penetration at the same time as being stimulated orally. This can be done with the fingers, vibrator or dildo.

and one more...  the secret is finding what she likes then focusing consistently and rhythmically on that movement.

Interested in learning more?  We recommend:

• Expert Guide to Oral Sex/Cunnilingus (How To DVD). This is real people having real sex -  with instruction! Hot & sexy as well as informative you can view same sex and opposite sex couples working on their technique to give her mind blowing oral pleasure (R18)
• Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus (book). This is a great resource in easy to read format with basic illustrations. This is not a picture book.

Excellent toys for oral sex:

• Purr Clitoral Arousal Gel is a vasodilator and draws the blood to the clitoris, speeding up sexual arousal for women. It can be used for any kind of sex and is fine to get in the mouth (it is pretty much tasteless and is natural). Purr Gel is very popular and effective.
Dams are a latex barrier that prevent actual contact whilst still maintaining sensation. Like a condom in a sheet form and flavoured. Important to use as a safe sex device.Clit Tickler vibes and vibrating bullets are great to add a different sensation (and give your tongue a rest)/  The Finger Massager can is worn over a finger so you have use of both hands, tongue and the vibe!