D.VICE Sex Advice. Does penis size really matter?
Posted by D.VICE Sexpert onI am 19 have not had a steady relationship and my penis is not very big, neither a grower or a shower. I don't know what impact that will have on my relationships with women or whether there is something I can do about it. Can you help me out?
D.VICE Sexpert Answers
Anxiety about penis size is a fairly common concern for men.
If you have ever watched any porn, you will have noticed all the men have huge cocks. In fact they are chosen for the role because they have a well above average sized penis.
For the vast majority of women, penis size is not of great interest and many would not be comparing based on size the way you do.
Many women are looking for a lover who is interested in giving as well as receiving pleasure, who is less focused on their own penis and more on using a variety of techniques to achieve orgasm.
Fingers, hands, penis, tongue, sex toys, sexual chemistry and a lover who listens and responds are all part of the making of a good lover.
If you think your lover might want to experience a fuller penetrative experience, ask.
There are plenty of dildos of varying shapes and sizes you can incorporate into your sex play. I recommend shopping online together as men usually order something too big
Some pointers for good sex, use a good quality lube, sex without can be uncomfortable, even painful which can be a turnoff.
Be playful, ask her what she likes and do that, be confident, even when you don't feel it, confidence is sexy.
Don't freak out if something doesn't work as planned, sex can be a bit like that
And remember porn is people acting and not real.
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